What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 03:08
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
What is your favorite position? Why?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
What is a good way to conduct an interview?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
How does it feel to watch your wife get fucked hard?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Is it normal to hate my dog, but feel too guilty to get rid of him?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Can a Trump supporter explain what was wrong with what Bishop Budde said to Donald Trump?
52~ What are your hobbies?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
To prevent ovarian cancers, fallopian tube removal is on the rise - statnews.com
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Do you think Japan will have same-sex marriage by 2030?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Is the Las Vegas Grand Prix considered one of the "premier events on the Formula 1 calendar?"
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
What are some tips for a girl with low self-esteem to start dating?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
39~ What are your love languages?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
What are the pros and cons of a prospective bride/groom not having any siblings?
Any that are a turn off?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Why do some children hate their parents?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Family Relation Age Play
Nothing too Serious
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
*** Random Questions ***
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
How old are you? Male or Female?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Would you read them together?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
29- How superstitious are you?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
Any that are a turn off?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
*** Questions About Me ***
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
If yes, what?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Please share Did you stop?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
The Ice Breaker Questions
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
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29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?